Fifty and Fine -Why Age is Just a Number When it Comes to Looking and Feeling Sexy

The idea of being sexy and sensual at any age has become a hot topic for women over the age of 50. Women in their 50s, 60s, 70s, and beyond are realizing that their sexuality is just as alive as ever. But how does one go about feeling sexy when you’re over 50? It’s not about looking like you’re 20 again (although there’s nothing wrong with that if you can!). It’s about owning your age, being comfortable in your skin, and knowing that you’ve still got it – no matter how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.  This blog post will explore some tips on how to feel sexy and sensual after 50.

Ditch the Frumpiness

First things first: if you want to feel sexy at 50, you need to ditch the frumpiness. That means no more mom jeans, no more baggy sweatshirts, and no more hiding your body under layers of clothing. It’s time to embrace your body regardless of your shape or size, and show it off with pride!  When you look good, you feel good – plain and simple.  Take some time to update your wardrobe with items that make you feel fabulous. That doesn’t mean you need to spend a fortune on designer clothes (unless that’s what floats your boat!).

One of the best ways to do this is to invest in a few key pieces of clothing that make you feel good about yourself. Wearing clothes that fit well and flatter your figure will give you the confidence you need to strut your stuff with pride. Another tip is to avoid anything too fussy or complicated; stick to simple, elegant pieces that highlight your best assets. And don’t forget the power of accessories! A great pair of earrings or a statement necklace can take any outfit from drab to fab in an instant.

Break out of Your Comfort Zone

Next up? Step outside of your comfort zone! Feeling sexy is all about being willing to try new things—whether that’s wearing something daring or exploring a new hairstyle. It could also mean pushing yourself physically by taking dance classes or trying yoga for the first time. No matter what it is, taking risks can help boost your self-esteem and get you out of a rut.

Make time for yourself

Feeling sexy also means taking time for self-care. In our busy lives, it’s easy to forget to take care of ourselves. We focus on our families, our careers, and our homes…and somewhere along the way, we forget to focus on ourselves. But if you don’t make time for yourself, how can you expect to feel sexy and confident? So take some time each day – even if it’s just 10 or 15 minutes – to do something that makes you feel good. Read a book, take a bubble bath, listen to your favorite music…whatever makes you feel happy and relaxed and brings you joy.  You deserve it!

Embrace Your Age & Embrace Your Sexuality

Part of feeling sexy and sensual is embracing who you are.  One of the best things about being over 50 is that you finally get to be comfortable in your skin. You’ve lived long enough to know who you are and what you want, so embrace it! This includes embracing what assets you bring to the table and your sexuality. If you’re single, don’t be afraid to put yourself out there and date like crazy. If you’re in a relationship, make an effort to spice things up in the bedroom. Rediscover what turns YOU on and then go for it! Age is nothing but a number when it comes to sexuality, so don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

Unlock Your Inner Seductress

Finally, unleash your inner seductress! The seductive woman within us all has been there from day one—we simply have to stop ignoring her. Try experimenting with different makeup looks or lingerie styles; anything that lets you tap into that sultry side of yourself. You may find that moments like these rekindle a passion for life that had been dormant for years; it’s truly liberating! Plus, why not spice up your relationship with some fun role-playing? Need we say more?


Feeling sexy doesn’t have an expiration date! No matter your age or stage in life, there are plenty of ways for women over the age of 50 to feel confident expressing themselves sexually. By exploring your sexuality, taking time for self-care, getting creative with your look, and finding a supportive community of other sexually empowered women over 50 – anyone can discover their unique sexiness at any age! So don’t let age define who you are – use these tips today so you can start feeling more sensual now!